An Outsider's Inquiry into a Dangerous Subculture
Author’s note: No real individuals are named except for public figures already in the news. The author is not and has never been a looksmaxxer. This essay is not an invitation to explore looksmaxxing. It is a warning. If you are a young man struggling with your appearance or your place in the world, the solution is not calipers and...
A Taxonomy of the Manosphere Predator
Opening: The Monster
There is a monster loose on the internet. He is not hiding. He streams from his studio — a bedroom, an apartment, a rented room with a ring light and an open door. He has a following. He has a philosophy. He has a growing collection of victims.
He is young — barely out of his teens, sometimes still in them. He has no...
A Practical, Compassionate Guide to Your 20s and Beyond
How to Use This Essay
This is not meant to be read in one sitting, though you can. The better way is slowly: one lesson per week, with time to sit with it, notice where it shows up in your life, and decide what fits.
Some lessons will land immediately. Others will feel irrelevant or even wrong — until six months from now, when...
If someone’s been giving you a hard time through school — spreading false rumors, trying to tear you down — here’s the single most powerful weapon in your arsenal:
Ignore them. Completely. School counselors, HR, cops — most of the time those systems don’t actually protect you. They drag things out, take no real action, or even flip it on you. So unless...
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